Parricide

The most extreme and embarrassing-even "pathological" in the end-of social hypocrisy against the "disorders" mental attitude we have in the collective against the parricide. See the news that a friend just shared on Facebook: "Three striking cases to understand the mind of a parricide" A monument to ignorance, the folly, the terrifying social blindness.

I am struck above all, a phrase from the article: "How is the mind of a person capable of killing their own parents?" Damn! To me, however, I worry much more the opposite question: how are the parents whose children are able to come to crave and running his assassination?

There is no doubt that the greatest social taboo is to kill the parents. Or steal, or murder, or torture, or rape children or adults, and so on., Nothing can compare. Socially, the supreme abjection, high treason, the unforgivable crime is to kill "that life has given you" (1). Psychologically, and therefore, fear supreme, maximum strength, the largest brakes of our conscious and unconscious aggressiveness towards our parents do. Therefore, nobody is really interested in the parricide! For this reason, that it come to pass can only be attributed to psychodynamic forces capable of breaking colossal, in some individuals, Tenacis parental dikes against hate in all of us. Unimaginable forces anyone who has not experienced or witnessed has the right to judge frivolously. (2)

Reading that article, one wonders: Who are really the "psychopaths" without feelings? Is psychotic or psychopathic (the difference does not matter here), which simply is making intimate release, his revenge? Or the company, with total lack of compassion for the fool, dares to condemn but to silence the guilt and crimes of offenders who previously broke her heart and mind for decades?

When one of the parricides citing the article says that only "the devil had removed the body of his father," without a doubt, although psychotic language, is quite right. Do you take the law into their hands? Of course, and it is illegal. But this does not entitle us to say more.

__1. Correspondingly, there is no taboo reverse. Parents do have the right to any form of violence against children, including infanticide. Which already tells us everything.

2. I met a middle-aged woman, shattered, drinker and coolly diagnosed as "borderline", who came running from her alcoholic mother, on another continent, because of almost daily beatings she received from her since childhood, with family denial ( "are imagining things," he said). This mother harassed daily by phone now blamed for "abandoning" asking for money constantly, threatening to commit suicide, and so on. My patient, desperate and blamed, naturally failed in everything he did, poured all his hatred against itself (3) and their last refuge was the alcohol (as his mother). I could not even hold it, then fled to the third session and never saw her again. Well, I wonder: in such cases, especially when the victim does not dare leave-or-not away from his tormentors, what can happen?

3. A vision of suicide and BPD, also superficial and acquitted of the family (even more aware of emotional factors).