Excessive Control Jealousy

Jealousy can sometimes be natural because children show even from childhood that it is possible to feel rivalry between brothers fighting for the attention of their parents. Well, well into adulthood, sometimes jealousy will suffer a moderate degree which are nothing more than a form of insecurity. They may suffer in all areas both in the professional field and personally.

Well, focusing on the pair field, the reality is that while jealousy to a minimum degree, reflects the interest is for the other person (otherwise, I would be totally indifferent). By contrast, high degree jealous or obsessive is just a sign that something needs to change in you and not the other. That is, assume that the extent to externalize your jealousy also get further and further away one of you.

And, only samples an obsession that in most cases has no real foundation. On the other hand, it also shows insecurity in you. Think, just someone who loves you do not want to hurt you and your partner is with you by choice, simply because she fell in love.

Obsessive jealousy also show an obsession or psychological attachment to the life of another. Some people when they are in couples make the mistake of losing sight of its individual aspect, ie their ability to enjoy the good times to be with friends and understand that a couple is happiest when everyone has their space margin of freedom and confidence. So the moment passed in common are much more enriching, positive and rewarding. Instead of focusing on jealousy, you better love you more you focus on yourself, to nurture your self-esteem and believe that you deserve to be happy, instead of a victim of fate or chance.